Inner attitude

Bumper - the buffer stops of life

Bumper

Bumper or buffer stop … originate from a sound. It makes puff or bof or pof and it stands for a dull noise or a bump. * Noises that have a sound-imitating origin or reproduce dull acoustic impressions. Do we thud onto the floor? Are we squeezed together? Or are we just the shock absorbers …

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Ideal world - a fallacy. We can only survive if we face reality

Ideal world

Ideal world … there is not any. To wish for an ideal world is the most natural thing in the world. But it is far from reality! Instead of putting on rose-tinted glasses, fogging us up or taking refuge in a world of video games, we should go through the world with a watchful eye! …

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Allowing unknowingness means coping with your own future

Unknowingness

Unknowingness … also means taking an inner attitude beyond our ego that allows this. In doing so, however, we must overcome some hurdles that arouse internal resistance in us. Because in the end it is a matter of acting without prejudice. Hurdles of unknowingness One of the first hurdles is judging or condemning. That means …

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Let us tear down walls to finally get on well with each other

Tear down walls

Tear down walls … that must be our goal. Because walls limit us and borders, exclude us. We hide behind walls and they make us aloof. They hinder us to raise one’s eye to something else, new things and make us lonely! Sense and purpose of walls! Differentiate from, limit, seal off, cordon off, fence …

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Our character forms and develops over many years

Character

Character … is an expression of our being. It is behind when we „appear“ in a certain form. It sets us apart, our essence and shows us what our personality is. But the character is also our inner attitude and strength, our standard that we live every day. AND our character changes with every new knowledge …

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Look behind opens up new perspectives

Look behind

Look behind In the foreground we often recognize structures, traits and other things that stands out. But if we take a closer look, we also see that something else can be seen behind it. Unfortunately, the view behind it is obscured either by others or by us! Shape your perspective How is it when we …

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Dark traits of our personality control our coexistence

Dark traits

Dark traits We find dark personality traits in Machiavellians, narcissists, psychopaths, sadists, and a few others … In their pronounced form, these can either make us infuriate or even fascinate us. The difficult thing is to take them where they are and show them what they trigger (positive as well as negative). The characteristics of …

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A passage in life is always a part that we can experience

Passage

A passage in life In one of my many passages in life, I saw this year a „fog arc“ for the first time! It was an incredible, but unfortunately ephemeral spectacle. Because when the sun rose completely, the fog was gone. And that is exactly how it is for us in our lives! Enjoy every …

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A dream is not yet a goal

Dream

Your dream … is nowhere near a goal that you can achieve! As long as you are dreaming, your dream will not work! We usually have a blurry picture of what we want to achieve. Achieving the good intention behind, depends among other things, on our personality! A dream is only achieved when we make …

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condition

Condition

My condition … is what I show to the outside. This is mostly a mirror of my deepest inner being. Some people are very good at pretending. But if we keep an eye on their body language and tone of voice, we can find out very quickly whether the person we are talking to is …

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good intention in our lives

Good intention

Good intention … has a lot to do with sovereignty and self-confidence. If we get to the root of our good intention and thus our inner behavior, we have a good chance of getting out of wrath, fear, and insecurity. Sometimes we stumble from one step to the other and do not see exactly where …

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open your blind spot

Blind spot

Blind spot … hides our self-perception. Our blind spot is shaped by prejudices, habits, and preferences. We do not see him; we usually do not know him either. He is invisible, sometimes blurry, but not tangible for us. Others see it often. For them, our blind spot is almost a treasure trove 😉 Because the …

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